Human interest stories tend to stick in the mind for a long time because they stick in the heart first. That’s why we write about them in the first place.
One of the most memorable human interest stories we’ve had at this site was Adam Hileman and the article that Josh Belcher did about him for Rocking God’s House some time ago.
I found out Wednesday night that Adam passed away after a battle with cancer.
Any kind of news like that hits you in the gut. I didn’t know Adam personally, but Josh’s story about him stuck with me. When I went back and read the article–which features a spectacular interview with Adam talking about his life and his fascinating family history (which includes a friendship with Elvis Presley)–tears hit my eyes.
In the interview he tells the story of all the surgeries he had to endure when he was young, but during the experience he saw angels, and he felt God’s presence near through it all. It was such an inspiring, moving moment in the interview that I wanted to share what Adam said:
Now, I know what you really want to hear about the surgeries that I have had, and I will tell that story now. After the second surgery in 1994, when I woke up from the operation, I told everyone in the room supporting me that I had seen angels during the surgery and also during my last surgery in 2007, when I was waking up, I saw a bright light. It may have been angels, it may have been God. All I know is that someone upstairs is watching over me and I am greatly blessed by that.
I still feel grateful that Adam shared his story with us, and I felt a proper tribute was needed for him.
I know Adam was a huge fan of the Zac Brown Band, so I felt it was only fitting to feature a video from that band: “Homegrown.” I chose “Homegrown” because, based on the sense I got from Josh’s interview, Adam was the kind of person who loved his community and loved the people in it. And the people there loved him. I’m guessing “Homegrown” would fit Adam well–almost as if the song were about him or being sung from his perspective. Though, I should add, it doesn’t 100% fit because it’s about somebody who lives in the mountains with lots of space on his own land. My understanding from Josh is that he lived in a more densely populated place than what’s portrayed in the song, yet Adam “still made that place feel like a tight-knit community,” as Josh mentioned today in an email to me.
But I also chose that song because the word “homegrown” best describes Adam’s new life now. That might sound strange, but let me explain. As I mentioned I didn’t know him, but his faith in Christ was evident in his interview. I know that he’s now in what the book of Hebrews (Ch. 11) calls “a better country, a heavenly country.” He’s in the greatest Hometown in existence now, and it’s a forever town that he’ll never have to leave. He can sing that song about his new home in Heaven and never feel the sadness again of having to leave that home. He’s safe and sound now.
I’m sure his family and friends wish he could be back in his earthly town that he called home. I felt the same way when I lost a loved one. But someday all the small towns in this world will pass away, and we’ll be able to move into the Forever Town where Adam is.
That will be a bright and happy homegrown day.
And this song catches a tiny glimpse of it:
This song will now forever take on a much deeper meaning for me. Adam was a remarkable young man loved by many with a deep faith. Thank you for these kind words even though you never had the chance to meet him you captured his essence through the love of his friend.
Thanks, Pat, for the kind comment. I’m so happy this was encouraging.
Thank you for the awesome tribute to my nephew Adam. He was such a great witness of showing kindness and loving others. My heart is sad that he is is not here anymore but he is healed and in the presents of Our Great God and Savior! Adams dad pass away April 7th 2015 so thankful that they are together again! ❤️
So glad it was encouraging. I definitely agree: while it hurts us when loved ones part, the flip-side is so true–how they are reunited with other loved ones and free from all the physical suffering. It’s comforting to think about the joy they are experiencing.
I was walking through Lowe’s today, and noticed, towards the front of the store, a collage of pictures of Adam, with the words “Remembering Adam Hileman” at the top. I immediately typed in Adam’s name in a search engine on my phone, only to find his obituary. I was shocked, and saddened to learn of his passing. I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing Adam personally, but I ran into him every now and again at Lowe’s. We talked on occasion (sometimes for an excess of 30 minutes) about random topics. I’m an introvert, and find it difficult to carry on lengthy conversations. However, with Adam, it was very easy. He was a genuinely nice individual, and I found that I enjoyed talking with him. He would tease me about my Cubs hat, as he was a Cardinals fan, and we talked about music, in particular Led Zeppelin, as I happened to be wearing a LZ hoodie at the time. I think I spoke to him on three separate occasions over the past couple of years. I don’t think that he ever caught my name, and I’m sure that I didn’t leave a lasting impression on him. However, he definitely left an impression on me. I wish I could have known Adam as more than just an infrequent acquaintance, and been a bigger part of his life. I’ll always remember our conversations, and think fondly of them. I wish Adam peace, and my thoughts and prayers are with his family. Goodbye Adam…
Thanks for your great comment and for sharing your story, Michael. It was moving to read.